Thank you for your help! Well with the 180 I have always been a fixer and would take care of any problems that would come up. I had been been talking to and pursuing her all along thru these past 9 months. So I stopped texting, calling or having any contact with her, unless needed. Just doing opposite of what I had been doing. Her not being happy has always been an issue with herself. She was molested as a child and her self esteem has always been low. Her quitting work and us becoming empty nesters I believe stirred all these feelings. I may be wrong but I believe she concocted all this crap in her own mind. She made the choice to take it out on her marriage and now family. Not that any of that matters now, but I sure would like to know reasons. Well I'll probably wait a couple months and if there is no change I will file.
