I know what you mean. For me it is not enduring the inconvenience that is the issue. It's the loss of teamwork, support and empathy and that is where resentment breeds. Instead of how do we get this done, it becomes I'll take care of this because it's important to me and if you want that done you better do it. This is not always declared but is often what it degrades into. If you want to be selfless and do it all, you end up camped out in the dark jungle of resentment. Just another facet of DBing. Be well
