Hi Sotto. I wouldn't say it's a good approach or really an approach of any type , it's more how you feel Can you change how you feel ? I would say no or not easily. You do more GAL than anyone and seem to have a great life. You are incredibly attractive as a person and I have not doubt very attractive to the eye and yet you struggle with your thoughts because of the pain and love re H.
I've said it before , your great and I think you know that you will recover and be happy again yet you are still going through a process. That process isn't help when H tells you that your the one for him and that he loves you.
Would it help if he was a b@stard and treated you bad , maybe but he doesn't and for me it's the MLC How long you stand or let the process unfold is again down to your feelings and thoughts
I have dated and I'll be candid here , the Dr was a hottie that I would have glanced at while married Not any more than an admiring glance but a glance non the less. I sat opposite this lady and felt nothing , it struck me then that while I'm Mr detached on the outside , inside stuff is far from clear
To me , you seem that you know life can be good but your standing and I only wish H could realise what he's losing before it's too late
Handsome Dan or Simon Smoothie will be smitten by our Sotto and whisk her off her feet and treat her the way a person such as she deserves
You have my admiration and definitely a glance should we happen to pass in lreal life
