Thanks Sandi. No changes in appearance and no new friends or employees at work that I know of. No trips or nights with girlfriends. Yes, she spends more time on her phone, but based on what I can hear, it is usually family or one of her girl friends. She has lost interest in most household related things. Before BD, I did not notice any withdrawal. I definitely notice it since BD. She was usually very active, now a couch potato. I hope this makes sense to you because I have no idea what it means. Another thought. She has become over the top affectionate with the kids in a weird way. She will almost dive at them from across the room to hug and kiss them.