Thanks guys, yes I do feel nowadays that I'm just holding a number of things suspended within me - DB efforts, love for H, difficult feelings for H, new life for me alone, possible new life with H. I carry on and I hold all of these things simultaneously within me - it's a bit of a weird thing really. Does that seem like the right approach do you think?

Busy day yesterday. Worked away then out with the charity bookstore folk for an Xmas dinner. Had a good time. I was wearing my work gear still, and had contacts instead of glasses, plus my new hair style. One of the guys - much older (think 70's) told me this is definately a great look for me & should stick with it grin

Working from home today, so best get to it! It's the last divorce support group tonight - but already I have a couple of events for after the new year planned with those guys. Plus I have a particular new female friend from there who lives in my town.

Started up another new GAL activity this week. Found myself a singing teacher. I used to do a lot of singing, but haven't for years. Thought it might be nice to take it up again & he's going to contact me in the new year.

Have a great day all xx

Last edited by Sotto; 12/08/15 08:36 AM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus