It sounds like a silly childish game, and it is, but the detachment and setting a mood of "I don't need you that bad, I'll be fine without you" really does snap them out of this stupid fog they're in. That's why the 180 has such a great track record. No more "I miss you's" or anything about your future relationship. That gives her the power, whether she's conscious of that or not, and she likes that position. Since she likes that position she isn't going to change her behavior. 180 my man. To the letter. It works. Make your conversations with her like a business transaction. No love, no hate, no emotion.
