Wayward Wife, my addiction, advice needed

[Zues126]

It was my mistake to think it would take days or weeks. I'm going to be working on GAL and seeing what life looks like w/o my wife around, or being the center of my universe.

I think it's a mistake to think it will work at all. Those are just expectations and attachment. The reality is that many sitches don't turn around, and those that do typically do only long after the LBS has grieved the loss and is living their next life.

If I were you I wouldn't go to M counseling. It is demeaning for you to try to work on an M while she walks from it. I would use that session as an opportunity to let her know that, and that you won't be attending any more. Then I would let go, create some distance, and build your new life without her.

If you disagree with anything I have said you truly are off by a factor of 10 how far gone she is and how done the M is.