Thanks, 123mich.

We had an hour discussion on the phone today. She is still just in la-la land, and thinks leaving me in limbo is fine. She really thinks things might still go the way of D, so she's leaving all her options open.

We'll be going to MC tomorrow, but it isn't going to be pretty. I won't have much to say, since the homework we were given is still not done. When the W doesn't want to do any of it, and insists I'm the one to do it, it doesn't bode well. I'm ok with it, really. I think the M has farther to fall, or my wife has farther to fall before we can start building. I'm more resolute in making sure I'm detached and just working on myself for now, and probably for the next couple months.

It was my mistake to think it would take days or weeks. I'm going to be working on GAL and seeing what life looks like w/o my wife around, or being the center of my universe.


M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)