Dealing with WW, Divorce, and Kids 3

[WhyUs]

Hey Drew,

Thanks for posting your concerns. I will try to address your questions. I'm not really sure how commited I am to DB either. I have no direct contact with WW because legally I cant. The only contact is through SIL and the L's which is pretty adversarial. I don't see DB working when our only contact is over custody issues. I GAL and am in a much better place right now. I go to church regularly and take my kids when I have them. I try to be the best dad I can be. I go see them at school once a week.. You name it I pretty much do it.

I told my attorney today about the wreck. He wants to see the police report before taking any action. I'm paying my L a lot of money and have spoken to 3 other L's. I take your advice and weigh it against what they say. I am not ignoring it. However, to be honest, they do this for a living and I really don't know you from a whole in the wall. Please don't take that the wrong way because I do value your opinion and you absolutely validate my feelings and instincts.

I came to this board to save my marriage. I have found it a good place to vent and read others sitches. This board has been very helpful for me in the healing process.

I honestly feel hopeless about saving my M given the circumstances. I feel like I have to accept what has happened. I feel our relationship has reached a point where the road of least resistence is to move forward with the D. Maybe that is weak of me. Maybe it is typical human behavior. I dont know. I cant answer the traffic issue on my board issue. I don't see most folks on here talking about legal issues. Maybe it is not of interest. Maybe my sitch is not very appealing.

I dont think it is beacause I ignore folks. I have received great advice on this board and have accepted it. My prior 6 threads have been deleted at my request so there is probably a lot you are missing from my sitch. I came here a pathetic wreck crying everyday. I lost 30lbs in two months. I have picked myself up with the advice I have received here. I am trying to be the best me I can be.

I'm not sure what I want. This feeling of going through with the D is very new to me. Before, I wanted to save my M. Now I am just journaling I suppose. My mind is in a state of transistion and It is difficult for me. I know that I do appreciate the legal advice I receive and I do run every bit of it by my L.