Ok, I'm not a vet but I'll chime in. Just caught up on your sitch and sorry you're here buddy.

A question I have before answering. Who's idea was the convo to start with? If it was W, maybe? If it was you and she "following up" I'd leave it go for now... Hopefully somebody with more experience will be around soon.

Last edited by Uphill; 12/08/15 01:28 AM.
Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home