Mike - my wife is in the fog, even after outing the affair on 10/30/15. I thought that we'd be making progress on the M, since we've seen a MC.

Nope. Still in the fog. Every step we make forward, we seem to make it back to square one.

Hang in there - continue to be there for the kids. I'm sure she's in a EA, like my wife was. My W just turned in a matter of weeks. Got addicted to the guy via FB, then calling. It's been a week of no calls, as far as she tells me.

The fantasy Carousel will need to stop before she can get off. Sounds like the music is still playing.

What are you doing right now for yourself? Working out? Getting out with the guys?

M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)