WhyUs, I am so glad you are feeling better. Maybe your IC has some insight as to why you need more time, or maybe you have moved on. Time will tell. My friend, the therapist told me it takes 2-3 years to recover from a divorce, I asked her if that counts the time still married and "working on it" and she said no. My guess is that if you are working on it from a DB perspective and really working on yourself, that has to shorten the recovery time.
I am sorry about your daughter, it sounds like she was ok though?
