Next Step?

[woundedfool]

I have read the DB and DR books.

Excellent, and may I be so bold to suggest read them a couple more times.

Do you find you like one over the other? If so which one?

I do have great support from friends

Kind of humbling, isn't it? In my situation, I was amazed at the number of people who showed (and demonstrated) concern for me and my health.

It took me a bit to respond to them, but when they reach out to you, do not be afraid to reach back.

and am slowly GAL outside marriage

Good, like what?

Should I just continue on path I am on?

Yes you should.