Originally Posted By: Free
I don't know how long to stay in this holding pattern. Also, I have no idea if it is helping or hurting. There are no signs from her either way.
In her new world, I do not exist.


Change the focus to be on YOU.

You stay in the holding pattern to get YOUR bearings to work on YOURSELF, to become a person only a fool would leave.
To learn about marriage and relationships - doing all this without any help or input from her.

Stop worrying about whether it is helping or hurting, YOU are making the changes for YOU.
Not to win her back.

OK?


Me-70, D37,S36