I am doing ok. Thanks for checking in. YOu mentioned make it a Christmas she will want next year. With me, I think good ok and we are getting along, I am weary that what W mentioned in the beginning before DBing was that she has an Aunt that is S from her H and has been like that for over 20 years, they live close to each other and go to all family functions, but live in separate houses. They both have never had another person in their life.
She said she could see us doing that. I have said I want no part in that. I wont be her friend, if I am not her H. Now I think she got the message but I worry a little that is where we are going. Also why I think this wont happen was her interest in OM after she attended a wedding weeks ago. She can claim low sex drive when she was with me but the truth is there she has a healthy sex drive.
I guess my point being something has to give, and I just don't buy into what she was selling in the past.
So yes up beat and positive is the way to go.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016
