Late to the game

[Free]

Thanks Sandi. After reading this again, I need to alter my style of detachment a bit.
I keep searching for any sign of change and see nothing. Looking at other peoples post, 6 months may not be enough time to see anything.
DB'ing gives a pretty detailed guideline on how to proceed. I'm following everything the best way I can. Time will tell.
The success stories here give me some hope. This is a great resource, although it's one I'd never thought I would need.
Very disturbing that this is so common.