D-Day Tomorrow

[woundedfool]

First, thank you for coming clean. It will help.

Ok here it goes. Don't judge us, me or her.

Absolutely not.

A. Not listening to her and respecting her wishes.
B. Lying to her.
C. Not ever involving her in this process. I would do it
behind her back.

All good observations. But I would also further:

D. Why did you do it? (I know you kind of mentioned liking to show off, but were you trading things, were you promising things, etc)?

But based on ABC&D what steps are YOU taking to make change.