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[Mona52]

Thanks Di! I was posting on you when you were posting on me I realize by what your H said how I was making my own H act selfish.

Every time he tried to step up with the kids, I jumped is as peacemaker and saved the kids. I not only gave him full permission to not correct them, I made it painful for him to correct them.

I will absolutely not take the full blame. If anyone tried to tell me how to speak to my children I would have told them to go take a long walk off a short pier. My H should have spoken to me about how my behavior was not working for him. Plus a million other things he could have done, i could have done, the kids could have done, etc. It does not matter now. I have learned from it so I can let it go.