I asked H to watch S2 for a few hours this Saturday and he said ok one week ago. Of course he canceled it at the last minute without providing any reason. I told him I'm sorry he feels his plans are important, but not mine or kids. No response. H shows up late every morning by 15-20 min despite of me asking to be on time repeatedly. It is clear that he shows no respect for my time or work. H can look for a daycare if he doesn't want to come watch the kids. But I'm not going to pay for it(and I can't either), so he has to take the initiative.
I also had asked H for next Friday night off because I have some work function. He said ok. (It's not like he is getting extra day off, he just had to ask for a particular date for the week because his shift varies by week)
Now H asked if I can take Tuesday off. I'll have a visitor at work so I really can't(my work is regular M-F), so H is mad saying it's not fair. I take care of kids on all my day offs. I only go out when H is already off, maybe once a week for a few hours. H has all the other nights and my weekend. I don't mind being with kids because I love it. But he can't call me unfair for this, can he? I know it's meaningless to reason with WWS, but I just had to vent.
