Vise82 ...it sounds like you are doing great.. Xmas is a stressful time and it's down to you to make it as upbeat and as positive an experience as possible for the kids and W . Make it an experience she will want next year.

It's frustrating as it sounds easy to us LBH to think ' why doesn't she give us a try, surely this path is less painful than the one WAW wants?

I am planning for the next few weeks but living just for today. I don't want to go back to old R. I want R+++ with the best of the old R and proper emotional and physical attachment for the new R.

It feels like such a long time since I was loved unconditionally.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16