I get what you are saying, I am going to have to put together a budget. W has asked for this and I have done nothing. I will need to make this a focus of mine so that next month I will have a budget. As you can tell this is something I want, I also don't want to have a W that jumps down my throat. Yes I still have some fear in me. Fear of W getting angry.
Financially it cant continue the way it has. For her it can because she just asks her parents for money to make it work. I have never had that. I had the opposite of that, parents trying to get money off of me.
Me late 30's W mid 30's T 15, M 10 S4, S7 ILYBNILWY June 2015 In house S July 2015 W rings off Oct 2015 My ring off Feb 2015 Separate houses June 2016