hey GS9,

I get what you are saying, I am going to have to put together a budget. W has asked for this and I have done nothing. I will need to make this a focus of mine so that next month I will have a budget. As you can tell this is something I want, I also don't want to have a W that jumps down my throat. Yes I still have some fear in me. Fear of W getting angry.

Financially it cant continue the way it has. For her it can because she just asks her parents for money to make it work. I have never had that. I had the opposite of that, parents trying to get money off of me.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016