Originally Posted By: mutatio
My wife was nicer to me today then in a long time. I used to get excited about the possibilities. Now I know to enjoy it but not view it as a sign. I really miss that smile and appreciate it every time I see it.



I LOVE how you are trying to live the life of ZERO expectations! Without your pressure, she is free to smile more often. People love to smile and laugh, but it is so hard when you are expected to smile and laugh.

Just take the smile as a moment of pleasantness and see if maybe you can get another one next week. Don't look for one before then. You might be surprised that if you do not look for it, it suddenly appears.


Me: 42
H: 45
M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs
D: 17
D: 15
S: 12
I kicked him out 8/21/15
I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!