She Wants Me to Leave 3rd Time .....EA or not EA?

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Huddy, as far as I know she still wants me to leave sometime in January - for a separation. Back in 2012 it was the same , but she changed overnight and decided to give my another chance. This time round I am a better man, and it will be harder for her.

She goes out as much as she did before BD , not more or less - on nearly every occasion she puts selfies on FB with her and her mates - afaik her mates don't know that we have an in house separation. They treat me normally when we meet. I will see them on NYE.

OM? - nothing is happening afaik. She has 3 email accounts , one is joint , one I have access to (she doesn't know) the other is her work.

Nothing has turned up on email or on the recording but the technology isn't that good. It lasts for 30 hours.

I have to believe that her mellowing towards me is genuine and she isn't setting me up. I have no evidence otherwise , but remain very wary. My EA radar is active all the time. There is no disrespect, no resentment and no rebelliousness. She is buying me Xmas presents

I have to be positive , be the man I want to be, make Xmas fabulous for the kids and show her through actions that she would be a fool to lose me.

I don't want the old R, I want R+++ with the best bits of the old R plus emotional and physical connection through mutual respect and endeavour.