Care, meaning care about working things out. In detaching, I find myself in the mindset of having to let go completely. Essentially, giving up hope.
t, I no longer push or pursue at all. Since then, communication is very limited to the basic household or child issues. There is not, or ever was, any abuse between us.
I don't know how long to stay in this holding pattern. Also, I have no idea if it is helping or hurting. There are no signs from her either way.
In her new world, I do not exist.


Me-40's
W- 40's
Married 22, Together 29
BD#1- 6/15 W needs space
BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16
Still both home, but not for long