Care, meaning care about working things out. In detaching, I find myself in the mindset of having to let go completely. Essentially, giving up hope. t, I no longer push or pursue at all. Since then, communication is very limited to the basic household or child issues. There is not, or ever was, any abuse between us. I don't know how long to stay in this holding pattern. Also, I have no idea if it is helping or hurting. There are no signs from her either way. In her new world, I do not exist.
Me-40's W- 40's Married 22, Together 29 BD#1- 6/15 W needs space BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16 Still both home, but not for long