LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (6)

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Interesting evening.... We have had several odd interactions

Interaction 1
WW went to look at a townhome. When she returned I was watching TV in MBR. She asked if I could watch TV downstairs so she could iron clothes and watch something else. I agreed. She then looked in D4's room and said " why didn't you make D4's bed when you put the blankets back in there"
I said " I guess I didn't feel like it" as I went downstairs.
She said " I know you usually don't think about anyone else but you could think about D4 and make her bed."
I said nothing and continued to the den and turned on the tv. WW is OCD around the house. I know a Bed being made is her thing. D4 hasn't slept in her own room in at least 6 months so the bed being made was all about her but she was trying to use D4 to manipulate me. I'm happy I was immediately able to recognize this.
She then stood on the balcony over the den and said "You need to start helping with D4's laundry. All you ever do is flop around here and do your own laundry. And turn down that TV you're not deaf. And did you get my email about the bills. You're keeping the house so you can take responsibility for paying the utilities for the house."
I said nothing and did nothing....including turning down the TV.

About 20 minutes later she came down stairs and sat on the couch next to me. I paused the TV and she said " I'm sorry for the mean way I was talking to you and what I said, Will you please help with D4 and her laundry?"
I said "Thank you very much for that apology. It means a lot to me and I appreciate it."
She said "I'm trying. I really am trying to be better."
I said " I will help with D4's laundry and I'll make sure the utilities are paid."
We sat there for a minute or so and then she stood up. She said " Do you have anything else you need to say or would like to say?"
I said "No, I don't"
She said "ok" and went upstairs

Interaction 2
WW asked if her Realtor would be getting updates on all the available properties in WW price range and requested neighbors. I told WW that her Realtor should be. She sadly said there isn't anything available. I shook my head acknowledging what she was saying. She went back upstairs.

Interaction 3
WW came back downstairs, let the dog out and then stood looking at me. She said " Well goodnight"
I moved the remote to make room for her to sit down. She sat down put her head on my chest and began crying. I held her for 3-4 minutes and then said "Well we should go to bed" and I began getting up. I then went upstairs.

What the heck is going on? 11 days til our D. Is she second guessing the D? Maybe. Is she being nice because she won't be able to buy a place right away and doesn't want me to kick her out of the house? Probably. Does she think she's losing me to someone else? Most likely bc she is a very jealous and accusing person and I have not been giving her reassurance. I have not been pursuing her, asking questions, showing concern over her not being able to find a place and I stayed at a friends house overnight last Thursday.

Ultimately it doesn't matter. Typing all of this out is really helping me process it. It doesn't matter bc nothing significant has changed. She may be reaching out but it's not enough. Some of the interactions feel like she expects me to be pursuing her. Nothing has changed bc she still is not to the point where she will fight for our M and fight to win me back.

11 more days