A common theme that I keep seeing is that time is my friend. It is, to the extent that I am slowly detaching. DB is changing me, not us. Am I supposed to detach to the point that I don't care anymore?
It is difficult to completely detach while still living together.
Any suggestions?


Me-40's
W- 40's
Married 22, Together 29
BD#1- 6/15 W needs space
BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16
Still both home, but not for long