More positivity yesterday.

I gave W her second dress as an early Xmas gift and it turns out she prefers the original one I bought her for her bday. She really loves it. It's nice to know my gift buying skills are vindicated again. I chose this dress, not her. She loves it more than the one she chose.

So I got another big hug which was nice.

She went to the gym in the morning then went to visit FIL in hospital in the afternoon - a 3 hour road trip.

I put all the outdoor Xmas lights up and all indoor decorations and tree.

In the early evening the boys and I had movie time at home - snuggled under a duvet - watching Home Alone ( yes the one from 1985!).

W was in a good mood when she returned.- she was singing - always a very good sign.
She later called me by my affectionate nickname - this is happening more regularly.

Later while watching TV I gave her another foot rub - this time she commented how good it was, very very good - the previous ones have just got a thank you.

This morning W left a note re the boys school activities. She signed it with a x. Again the first time she has signed with a x since BD.

All small signs, baby steps, small steps.

Last edited by isittoolate; 12/07/15 08:33 AM.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16