If he has a six-figure income (I think you said he does?) and no mortgage, you can tell him I can sell him a very tiny violin at a nominal charge... wink

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17