Painter, sorry to hear about the emails. I don't want to read too much into it, but could be why he has not been into MC.
Why are you wasting your time to find place for your H? He is a big boy and can do that on his own. If you want him out then I would just discuss timeline and he can figure his part out. You can use that time instead to focus on you.
Ritter Sport dark chocolate with hazelnuts is always around this house if you want you swing by some time!!
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015