New or false hope?

[JulieH]

Mutatio, please don't apologize. I am greatful for all opinions and responses. Often times I question myself because I don't know if I am being fair to husband or to myself.

Trust me, When I read other people's situations I am often thinking "why are they continuing to deal with this (fill in blank)? They deserve better. This is just so wrong. Especially when the spouses are unfaithful. I guess there are always 2 sides though.

I hope you continue to post your opinions.