LBH w/ a WW trying to save my M (6)

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Another question. I bought an "elf on a shelf" that I would like to start the tradition with D4. Do I invite WW to be part of it? She will be here through Christmas most likely.

As I sit here thinking about it..... my initial response is "no, I just do it. She wouldn't think of me" but do I want to lower myself to her level? Or am I just showing her I'm moving on with out her? Do I consider inviting her to be part of it because I'm too much of a nice guy? Would a "man only a fool would leave" invite her to be part or just do it without her?
The guy I was when she fell in love with me would have just did it but I considered myself an A-hole back then. I guess I have to be more of an A-hole. Confident but not rude. Strong but not controlling. Firm but not unloving.