Late to the game

[Painter]

Hi there,

Sorry you are here! Cadet should come by shortly with a welcome post and a ton of links. They are very good and informative!

I have been on a rollercoaster for a year and a half now, so 6 months doesn't sound so long to me. If you want to give your M every chance, hang in there and keep up the good work! She is still there and has done nothing to start a D or S process?

I really understand the urge to end the uncertainty. Limbo is not a fun place. But you might quickly regret what you put in motion.

Unless you know she's in an active A or otherwise doing things to plan her future in a way that makes it necessary for you to protect yourself, I would say that every day is a gift.

Also, I would read Divorce Remedy, if you haven't.