At this point, he's going to be very angry and you're going to be very scared. Later on the roles may be reversed.
My X and I were like that. Mindreading here but he is prob feeling the guilt and you telling your legitimate concerns and fears to him will only make him lash out more.
Do you have a L and can you get the L to help you sort things out? Do you talk to your family often?
If he's affecting you so much, you may want to limit interactions until you can both communicate civilly? Or keep it to text and email?
The X lashed out at me in the beginning for 2 momths until I stopped communicating with him. To be fair to him, there were valid criticisms. Just that the way he put them acrosd were so vitriolic.
Stay strong. You have been doing fine. There will be days when you feel like everything is not ok. It's normal. But you can and will get by, one day at a time.
Last edited by Grlonfr; 12/06/1511:44 PM.
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