So should I be unloving? I know the ILY statement was a mistake. I'm having trouble with the balance.

Would a "man only a fool would leave" be mean to her? Kick her out of bed? Not return a hug? It's so confusing.

She just walked up and wrapped her arms around me again. please help I only have 12 more days until D day

Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place