So much for our progress. By total chance (didn't even think about snooping), I found e-mails this morning from OW to H, dated just a couple of days ago. He hadn't looked at them yet, and unfortunately I reacted before I had a chance to forward them to myself. He deleted them, but I have other proof (not saying what on a public board). They were very brief, one was just a picture of her, the other was just a link and a comment. Makes me think that they are talking on the phone, and this is just additional.

H insists he has not talked to her, just e-mailed a few times after he found out she was engaged (from me, it was on her FB-page). He claims she is engaged to someone else, I think she is referring to H, but if it is someone else, she's cheating on him, too! What a prize! I asked H, 'so that is the kind of character you want to have in your life, as your partner? Someone who is sending selfies to a married man while being engaged to another man?' He sheepishly said, 'No...'

I'm so disgusted with both of them. I am going to find a way so he can move out.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17