Feyth,

Do that which works for you in your sitch.

Frankly I am definitely not keen on IC1, and I have doubts about IC2.

This is your sitch and no one can tell you what to do. No IC can put a strategy that you have to adopt, sounds like the right IC hasn't been interviewed yet. If your current strategy is working then why change it? why not develop it?

My main comment would be more detachment. You can read about detachment, but it isn't about being unattached. You can still stand.

It is about doing that which works for you, irrespective of any effects. It is letting go of any outcome with H and working for you. It isn't about moving on.

Another misnomer if I may. Letting go is stopping another's behaviour from driving your emotions. Imagine two people with a rope doing a tug of war over a deep well, if you let go neither will fall in. Another example is being dragged water skiing behind a speed boat driven by a madman. That is why the image of the lighthouse is so strong.

Letting go and detaching will put you more in control of you.

It takes back your power for you. It can release your fear.

This fear is absolutely OK by the way, it's your feeling, don't deny it to yourself. If you face the very worst that can happen, feel and walk to the pain, it can be very liberating and put the fear in perspective. The pain is the absolute worst, a good IC can help you with this.

100% where you need to be at this moment. Absolutely.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 12/06/15 08:32 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW