Thanks Fogg. I guess I'll plan my next project, maybe I'll go to the store tomorrow morning. If this keeps up, I may fix everything in need of repair.
I would be in a dark place if it wasn't for the support of you and all the other fine people on this forum.
Is the best course of action for me to be pleasantly supportive to her and keep myself busy will she processes her feelings and emotions?
Mutatio, this is exactly where I am too. We both have the same flawed logic. Our spouses may never process their feelings. I know that I am waiting. I am keeping busy and trying to improve myself, but I am waiting on him. I know its not the way we are supposed to be looking at this whole thing, I can see the flaw in the logic when you post it, or someone else, but truthfully that is exactly where I am right now also. The sad thing is that I think it will be when we actually stop waiting and literally do move on that will be the thing that brings our spouses back. And then we won't want them at that point. I am starting to see how that is one viable ending to this whole mess.
