Please don't stop posting because I'm giving you more tough love than anything. I might be coming off as a dick at times and I do apologize. I can just see so much of my own M and issues in your sitch and I want to help you. I honestly do want you and your M to succeed.
How are things going? Did you get to see your daughters yet? Any other developments since last month?
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be