No more evidence of EA....W doesn't seem to contact OM at all. It's probably gone underground, so the recording will show it for what it is. She doesn't like his FB posts and he hardly ever likes hers. I have access to a email account she sometimes uses ... No evidence of EA.
W still wears her wedding ring and her FB status is married.
No disrespectful talk from W and no resentment of my presence.
She reached out to me several times even when in Sweden re: the power outage drama, S11 being upset and her guilt for him being home alone. Her concerns re male friend at the gym, her concerns re FIL health,
I stepped up to pay for more of the kids activities and sorting out childcare arrangements. She agreed her being p1ssed off on Monday re childcare was actually her fault as much as mine.
I have done one foot rub ...last Sunday, and several times managed to touch her in a reassuring way, small of back , tap on leg etc. also I got a long hug for the bday present. Twice she has used her affectionate nickname for me....once today.
It looks like we will be together on NYE with the same families as yesterday. It will be awkward at midnight.
Oh and she really really likes the dress I bought her for her birthday
And what about me. I continue to observe, monitor and try to do what works. I GAL when I can, salsa dancing and I have two Xmas parties this week. I am also taking the boys on an overnight trip to London next Saturday.
I am trying to be the man I want to be, to love her from a distance and remain a rock at her side, to be more confident and to stay focussed on DBing
Last edited by isittoolate; 12/06/1511:33 AM.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
