I'm really trying to use my actions to show WW she has lost me.
Then she came to my side of the bed. Leaned over me, kissed my cheek, and said good night I love you. I said I love you too. We snuggled for a couple minutes. She then said " I better go to bed." I said "good night"
How can she possibly feel she is losing you when you tell her ILY and then snuggle with her? Seriously! It's basic DBing.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
