When I first started reading on here all I wanted to read was that it works!! That you can save your marriage. I wanted to hear the success stories to give me hope. I read a lot about how 1 person CAN save the marriage Now it seems all I can see is how it isn't working I am losing/lost. Hope. I think. Who am I kidding H never wanted to try and work on marriage - he is just waiting for me to give up. What am I clinging to?