My WW - Trying To Stay Strong

[Butterc]

What makes her think you are hoping to get back together?! I think mvngfrwd2 is right. While you're connecting with friends, she's seeing you drift away. I'll share my STFU smoothie with you.

[Strngr!]

She's done with me doesnt want anything to do with me. Everythings is my fault because i neglected her for years...

[Strngr!]

What makes her think you are hoping to get back together?! I think mvngfrwd2 is right. While you're connecting with friends, she's seeing you drift away. I'll share my STFU smoothie with you.

i told her way back id prefer to work on our m

[mvgfwd2]

Typical. Don't sweat it. I know you didn't really expect a different response.

[mvgfwd2]

What you said before is no longer valid. She is fighting to get you to come begging her not to give up on the M, not to leave, etc. Don't give that to her. Don't let her have a plan B. If you let her have a plan B once this OM is done you will be the bridge to the next OM. You can't be plan B.

[Strngr!]

After she stormed and and yelled at me she went for a shower and put S1 to sleep. She came back out and appologized about yelling infront of S1. I said you dont need to appologize to me appologize to him. Then we sat for a while no talking. She said she needed to have a serious talk. She told me she had sex with OM. She had this sudden burst of honesty because my buddy went through his GF's phone and he found out and was going to tell me of W didnt. She talked about seperating and how she doesnt think we can come back now that my buddy sho is known for holding grudges knows. She said shes scared and that shes worried about money. I didnt say much. Validated the best i know how. Now shes out with work friends.

[Azzork]

After she stormed and and yelled at me she went for a shower and put S1 to sleep. She came back out and appologized about yelling infront of S1. I said you dont need to appologize to me appologize to him. Then we sat for a while no talking. She said she needed to have a serious talk. She told me she had sex with OM. She had this sudden burst of honesty because my buddy went through his GF's phone and he found out and was going to tell me of W didnt. She talked about seperating and how she doesnt think we can come back now that my buddy sho is known for holding grudges knows. She said shes scared and that shes worried about money. I didnt say much. Validated the best i know how. Now shes out with work friends.

J -

Just want to say I feel for you. I will never understand the selfishness of a WW. A 1 year old son, and this is where things go? Unreal.

Regardless of all of that, your path really doesn't change with this news. Stick to it. I hope that you can increase your GAL activities and really work to become the man only a fool would leave.

Stay strong, buddy.

[Strngr!]

Thanks Azz! I thouht telling my buddy would make things easier. Doesnt seem to be the case yesterday was one of my worst days yet.

I need to kick the GAL into high gear. My buddy and i are going for coffee today hes got lots of questions for me now that he knows about everything.

[Azzork]

I understand where you are, but remember that while he can support you some, telling him ANYTHING only makes the road home bumpier for her. I think you witnesses that yesterday.

[Strngr!]

What you said before is no longer valid. She is fighting to get you to come begging her not to give up on the M, not to leave, etc. Don't give that to her. Don't let her have a plan B. If you let her have a plan B once this OM is done you will be the bridge to the next OM. You can't be plan B.

I dono if this is the case think she feels a lose here of her freindship with my buddy and she sees it potentially effecting her friendship with her freind whos dating my buddy. She blames it on me because i told him. But the reality is its her own fault she was texting OM when she spent time with my buddy and his gf and that helped him figure out on his own what was going on. I honestly beleive she means what she says at this time and that it is not an attempt play games and have come begging saying we can work through this. All my opinion i dont what exactly shes thinking i did STFU though beat i could. This may have f'ed things up for us but what can i do i couldng keep on the path i was not tellijg anyone that we are having problems i would have gone insane. I guess in the futur when i twll someone were having problems i should send them to W with their questions they have about what our problema are?