Mutatio, I agree with fogg. Do what you can to be happy and maybe it will make W curious. I had the fear of letting go... believe me, I am the poster child. Now, I am trying to shift my thinking. If I do let go, drop the rope, whatever... she will see that I am not going to be plan b. That should give my W reason to think. May not get a positive result, but I can focus on me and my kids.
Mu, you are an awesome and helpful man. Maybe this is a 180 that can help your W realize it too.
Good luck!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....
