At Christmas and birthday W and I spoil each other with about £400 worth of presents about 6-8 big and small presents
W wanted us to reduce it this year to 4.
Last Saturday I decided to buy her one present for her birthday - a dress. NB I am a really good present buyer for W and have spontaneously bought her dresses in the past, even shoes.
I was choosing a dress online last Sat and showed a couple to W to ask her opinion.
Anyway I ordered one and gave it to her this morning with a cup of tea in bed.
She was a little disappointed - she had thought She was getting another one that I had shown her and had even showed a picture of it to her work colleagues - saying 'he's getting me this dress'. But I'm not a mind reader and didn't know she liked that one most of all
The dress I actually got her she really likes as well but now wants both. One for Xmas and one for birthday. C'est la vie!
Anyway she really appreciated my efforts and I got a big 30 second hug from her. She initiated it- the first since BD.
Last edited by isittoolate; 12/05/1509:47 AM.
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
