It's difficult to communicate when your priorities are so different. I have experimented with asserting myself differently at times with H, and it seemed to actually work, but I had to be a person I didn't like, so I ended up reverting back to my real self.

Sometimes I also feel like it is the role I have as wife that makes him act the way he does. That it's not really about me so much as about what I represent. I probably feel that way because he changed so radically from the day I moved in.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17