Zues, I agree with you about your definition of abuse. Neither of us have ever feared for our safety. Often times I think of your card analogy. There is little that is making me want to work things out at this point so it will be easy for me to see if he is genuine. I have to remember that just as much as I see him as selfish he sees me as something equally as bad.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
