It might be your best option, but theres no guarantees with anything. I think part of what you said makes sense but the part that concerns me is where you seem to be waiting around for her to process her emotions.
What happens if she never does, or if she decides she wants a D? I know its not what you want to hear and it may not happen, but its something we have to accept as a possibility. Were not waiting around for our S's to do anything, were moving forward and living our lives while they live theirs. At some point in the future those two paths may join back up but you cant hold off on your life to wait for her. Find what makes you happy in life and do it. Lets explore what mutatio wants, what will make him happy, what he desires to do (other than be in a loving relationship, that's outside of your control right now).
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
