There has to be better men out there right? This is pretty selfish and cheap right? Am I wrong in anyway? How can I rationalize this so that he is not the pathetic, selfish, greedy man that I am seeing. Husbands would you do this?
This is how I read it. If he is behaving this way, he is cheap, selfish and cares more about his money then he does about you. If his primary focus was you, he would move heaven and earth to be by your side. It seems money is his mistress.
He has a luxury car and wife and kids get empty promises. This is not what a man who loves his wife does. This is not what a man who does not love with wife and wants out does. A real man does the right thing even if it hurts. He is not out for you, he is out for himself.
I'm sorry if I upset you. I am honest to a fault and this is how I read it. This is a real man's opinion.