Thank you everyone! I will read through more thoroughly tonight. Just needed to post because I am hurt. Just got in mail that he took me off car insurance. I get it. But it just goes to show what a fool I have been...
I agonized for months about asking for child support. He lived off my family and saved tons of money for over a year (very little went to me and kids) and he has no problem with taking me off before court date. He told me he would do this but it was fast. I dont believe he has real intentions of reconciliation or he would not do this. and do I want someone that is this greedy and selfish?...he earns 3 figures and has no expenses. I earn a lot less.
I am so angry and want so bad to confront. How do I keep myself from saying the things I want to? Please help me from losing it. I should just keep quiet right?;
There has to be better men out there right? This is pretty selfish and cheap right? Am I wrong in anyway? How can I rationalize this so that he is not the pathetic, selfish, greedy man that I am seeing. Husbands would you do this?
I should have known. I remember best friend warned me. When we were first dating the three of us went out to bar to meet up with friends. She did not have a boyfriend at the time. He brought back drinks for me and him but not for her. She called him on it and bought her own drink. I had forgotten about it until recently she reminded me. At time he felt like he shouldn't have to provide others with drinks, just because they are women etc. But it would have been nice. I do stuff like that for people and never really think about it. But then he wastes money on tons of take out and luxury car.
Perhaps this is the sign I need to just move on. Why entertain anything else. Did he think this of me when I failed for child support. I don't think it's necessarily revenge (I could understand the passion involved e with that) I thinks it's just him looking out for himself financially. Perhaps I'm being just as greedy and financially selfish so why complain when he does it too?
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
