EP - Thank you!!! I am trying! This board unfortunately only sees my worst, as I tend to come here to complain, rant, whine, etc. I'm trying to take those speed bumps out of my path. In between posts I am having fun... I promise!
Gmum - Which part? Her leaving without working with me, creating a separate life, or about letting go... letting her pave her road without trying to draw, reason, or impact her life to receive the outcome I wanted or I believed our kids deserved (her to return home).
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
Does anyone know how to find Greek and Coach's Threads???? I can't find them anymore.
Also, I see her Mom a couple times a week (for kid's daycare). I know her parents and sister's family all still care about me. But I have animosity towards all of them for not telling me about the other man. Is this silly? Should I confront them?
Taking the kids to their cousins this afternoon for the weekend. I have to text her to tell her that (per the parenting plan b/c they are out of state). I'm not looking forward to texting her. I've cut her out of my life completely and I don't like the idea of approaching her about anything (which isn't feasible for the long haul, but oh well).
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
Hi Mahhhty. Inlaws have to put their blood first. Tough but it's how it is. Best to put that one out of thought because they had no choice and that's that
Can't help re old threads but maybe Cadet will oblige
Texting is the lessor of the evils of contact. Polite and short and then out of mind. It's part and parcel of having children together so do it and don't dwell
GB, I agree with Julie your advise is spot on and appreciated. What isn't is the condescending tone.
Had a big long post explaining why I reacted to those "love letter" posts the way I did but I waited a few days and thought better of it.
In short, writing yourself a love letter is a wicca/pagan ritual for self love.
It is self-diety worship.
I'm not attacking anyone personally or calling anyone names. My differences of opinion are theological. Lots of unsuspecting people get caught up in Eastern and underworld religions whose ideas, beliefs and practices are presented to them under the guise of self-help books, manuals and even TED talks. Tolle, Osteen and even Opray are essentially "preaching" this neo-paganism & pantheism.
In short, neither you, I, Tolle, Oprah nor Osteen are "love" - God is love.
In His name I pray for you a hedge of thorns as you seek to gather strength and reestablish yourself personally after experiencing all you have the last year.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
How about this one.... Does anyone know how to find Greek and Coach's Threads???? I can't find them anymore.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015
Sorry to hijack GB , wow , yes there are lots of unsuspecting people out there and then there are millions and millions who are raised to follow one religion or another depending on the chance of where they are born
You dismissed Vanillia and her beliefs but I honestly thought you where coming from a decent place ( all be it wrong place ). when you did it. After the post above I sincerely hope you are being comical You dismissed so many peoples beliefs and their interpretations of life and living in one short post that you have to be joking. I feel a bit stupid now as you got me. I'll still post this as a warning to others that might have taken it as I did
I haven't posted on your thread ever before, but I had followed your sitch for a long time and know you are man of great integrity and respect.
I am sorry to post for reasons unrelated to your sitch. I just really wanted to acknowledge RD's post...thanks RD...I didn't know how to reply to GB without hijacking Mahhhty's thread!
I was so upset reading GB post. Thank you for verbalising what I was unable to.
